Mothers have it all wrong. It is not their job to live their children’s lives for them. My word tells you: train them up in the way they should go and they will never depart from it. No where in My word does it say: live their lives for them.. That is the reason for so much frustration in My women and also the men; they are trying to be the Holy Spirit, God and Jesus all wrapped up in one and they tell their children: it is either my way or no way and that does not work; all that does is breed rebellion upon rebellion. Why are you afraid to let go of the children? Is it because you will feel helpless; Is it because you are a controlling somebody and need to live their lives for them? You need to take an honest look at your entire situation and come to some wise decisions and then back off and allow My Holy Spirit to do his job. It might not be the way you want it to go; but it is the way I want it to go. Now that you have sown a garden of rebellion; those weeds will have to be eradicated before the vessel can bloom like the precious rose I intended it to be.
You need to train them from second one; not wait four or five years down the road. By then their habits have already been formed and bad habits are very hard to break and when rebellion is at the root of every bad habit, you have a compounded situation.
Parents why not stand back now and allow Me to do the perfect works in your children.

“Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.” (Proverbs 22:6, NKJV)
“For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, And stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because you have rejected the word of the LORD, He also has rejected you from being king.” (1 Samuel 15:23)